Chastity belted servant husband
Servant husband in chastity belt real life story
My wife and I have been in a femdom relationship for most of our 9 year marriage. Until recently, we kept all D/S activities private and lived a more or less vanilla life in public. That changed somewhat when we met another femdom couple (I'll call them Jane and Jim) in our city. My wife had briefly worked with the woman years before, and it wasn't long until we were sharing the details of our lifestyle with them. For me, it was great to have another submissive to talk to. Jim and I are both househusbands, and we would have a lot of fun discussing our everyday experiences as helpmates to professional women.
A few weeks ago, I broke my wrist in an accident at home and was not able to do housework. Jane offered to let Jim come over to do some of the household chores, and my wife agreed. Jane has him well trained, and I can't deny he's a superior sub. He has greater domestic skills, is more cheerful, attentive, intuitive, and totally obedient. Well, my wife was extremely impressed. I really fell short in comparison. I went from being the best sub she had known to a slacker. She told me I needed to improve, and she asked Jane what the secret was.
Jane said that Jim was such a good sub because of heavy discipline and chastity. Except for very infrequent masturbation sessions, he is kept chaste 24/7. He is whipped weekly and is kept on a very strict diet and exercise regimen. He has very restricted access to the internet. He watches no television, and has an early bedtime if his chores are done. It is Jane's philosophy that any distractions in a man's life must be removed in order for him to remain focused on his wife.
My wife is very intrigued with this philosophy. She has informed me that drastic changes are going to be made. She says I'm going to have to endure intense, weekly physical discipline. She has told me to prepare myself for eventual long term chastity, and is planning to start me on saw palmetto for prostate health. She says that much of Jane's program will be implemented gradually during the next few months, and that it will improve and exhilarate our marriage.
I seriously doubt if I can handle this. I'm not a "pain puppy" and although my wife has denied me for extended periods in the past, I think there is a limit to my tolerance for chastity. The other restrictions would be difficult as well. I do have to admit that Jim seems very happy and content, but what is right for one sub may not be right for all.
I know I sound whiny, but I really do want to please my wife. I've already been lowered in her eyes, and I don't want to disappoint her anymore. Should I try to submit to her program and hope for the best? Or would it be better to confront her now about my fears (again, I don?t want to disappoint her)?